I’m thinking likes and dislikes today.
5 THINGS I LOVE (apart from my family and friends!)
Walking in the countryside
Preferably over moorland or through woods – I simply love to pack up some coffee and biscuits and pop on my walking boots.
I rarely have time off, and I’m useless at resting, so walking time in the fabulous UK countryside is my main way to escape reality (or fiction).
Hardly a surprise to find this on my list! My passion for all things Robin Hood has been part of my life since I was 14 years old – and I can’t see it going anywhere anytime soon.
I’ll be honest – I don’t enjoy writing very much. I slog my way through every first draft. When it comes to the rewriting process however, it’s a different matter. I love redrafting my work – that magical process of improving each sentence and making every word work hard for its right to be there. It’s both challenging and satisfying.
I love going to cafes and restaurants. Even though I sit in a cafe corner every day, I never get bored of the experience. Whether it’s just for a cuppa, or for a scone and coffee, or a three course dinner – I simply adore the process – and all the people watching that goes with the environment! (I’m also quite keen on other people doing the cooking and clearing up!)
Weekend reading time
Time off is a bit of a luxury for me, so for the past few years – in order to enforce some down time on myself – I put aside one hour each Saturday and Sunday where all I do is sit and read (and drink coffee). It is pure bliss to enjoy words I haven’t written.
5 THINGS I DISLIKE
‘May I reach out to you’ or ‘I’m just reaching out to you…’
UG! Every time I hear those words I have the instant urge to have a wash. There is something horribly clammy about them – and ever so slightly creepy. (Not to mention needy.)
So please, NEVER reach out to me. You can ask for my help, my time or my advice. You can visit me, email me and talk to me – but PLEASE do not reach out to me.
I simply don’t get it. How can people not do things, because they can’t be bothered?
(This is different from resting or being unable to do things)
Humiliation forms a big part of TV and social media culture these days – and I hate it. Laughing at someone who is being humiliated is just cruel. Don’t even get me started on humiliation in general.
Loud noises – especially shouting and music
I dislike loud noise. I don’t understand people why shout rather than talk (outside of extreme anger or fear).
Sometimes, when I’m sat in my cafe corner, I have groups on nearby tables (usually women), talking at each other, rather than having a conversation. They each talk louder and louder, until they are all basically shouting – while no one actually listens to a word anyone else is saying. It drive me nuts – they are inches from each other, and they’re shouting.
Oh – and I don’t want to hear other people’s music either!
Yes – I’m turning into a grumpy old woman!
So – that’s likes and dislikes – I’ll be back some with some more ‘5 things’ lists.